ERTI SEBUAH PERSAHABATAN

Dalam dunia ini kita tidak punya sesiapa, Kecuali diri sendiri….. Tetapi…Dalam kita bersendirian,kita beruntung kerana…. Mempunyai seorang sahabat yang memahami kita. Sebagaimana kita mengharapkan keiklasan dan kejujuran Seorang sahabat,begitulah juga dia. Tetapi kita sering terlupa akan hal itu. Cuma mengambil kira tentang harapan dan perasaan kita. Kita rasa dikhianati bila dia tidak menepati janjinya. Kita tidak memberi dia peluang untuk menerangkan keadaannya. Bagi kita, itu alasannya untuk menutup kesilapan dan membela diri. Kita juga pernah membiarkan dia ternanti-nanti kerana kita juga ada janji yg tidak ditepati. Kita beri beribu alasan memaksa dia terima alasan kita. Waktu itu, terfikirkah kita perasaannya…..? Seperti kita, dia juga tahu rasa kecewa….. tetapi kita sering terlupa. Untungnya mempunyai seorang sahabat yang sentiasa memahami Yang selalu berada disisi pada waktu kita memerlukannya. Dia mendengar luahan perasaan kita, segala rasa kecewa dan ketakutan. Harapan dan impian juga kita luahkan. Dia memberi jalan sebagai laluan penyelesaian masalah. Selalunya kita terlalu asyik menceritakan tentang diri kita hingga Kadang-kadang kita terlupa sahabat kita juga ada cerita yg ingin dikongsi bersama kita. Pernah kah kita memberi dia peluang untuk menceritakan tentang rasa bimbangnya,rasa takutnya? Pernahkah kita menenangkan dia sebagaimana dia pernah menyabarkan kita. Ikhlaskah kita mendengar tentang kejayaan dan berita gembiranya? Mampukah kita menjadi sumber kekuatannya sepertimana dia meniup semangat setiap kali kita rasa kecewa dan menyerah kalah? Dapatkah kita yakinkan dia yg kita boleh dipercayai, kita boleh dijadikan tempat untuk bersandar bila terasa lemah, agar tidak rebah….? Bolehkah kita menjadi bahu untuk dia bersandar harapan? Sesekali jadilah sahabat yg mendengar dari yg hanya bercerita….. Ambillah masa untuk memahami hati dan perasaan sahabat… Kerana dia juga seorang manusia, Dia juga ada rasa takut, ada rasa bimbang,sedih dan kecewa. Dia juga ada kelemahan dan memerlukan seorang sahabat….. Sebagai kekuatan Jadilah kita sahabatnya itu…. Kita selalu melihat dia ketawa, tetapi mungkin sebenarnya dia tidak setabah yg kita sangkakan. Di sebalik senyumannya mungkin banyak cerita sedih yg ingin diluahkan.. Di sebalik kesenangannya mungkin tersimpan seribu kekalutan….. Kita tidak tahu…. Tetapi….jika kita cuba jadi sahabat sepertinya, mungkin kita akan tahu….. RENUNGILAH... HARGAILAH SEBUAH PERSAHABATAN KERANA DISEBALIKNYA TERSIMPUL SEGALA-GALANYA

What tree did you fall from??

Subject: What tree did you fall from?

Find your birthday and then click on your tree. This is really cool and somewhat accurate...

Dec 23 to Jan 01
Apple Tree

Jun 25 to Jul 04
Apple Tree


Jan 01 to Jan 11
Fir Tree

Jul 05 to Jul 14
Fir Tree


Jan 12 to Jan 24
Elm Tree

Jul 15 to Jul 25
Elm Tree


Jan 25 to Feb 03
Cypress Tree

Jul 26 to Aug 04
Cypress Tree


Feb 04 to Feb 08
Poplar Tree

Aug 05 to Aug 13
Poplar Tree


Feb 09 to Feb 18
Cedar Tree

Aug 14 to Aug 23
Cedar Tree


Feb 19 to Feb 28
Pine Tree

Aug 24 to Sep 02
Pine Tree


Mar 01 to Mar 10
Weeping Willow Tree

Sep 03 to Sep 12
Weeping Willow Tree


Mar 11 to Mar 20
Lime Tree

Sep 13 to Sep 22
Lime Tree


Mar 21
Oak Tree

Sep 23
Olive Tree


Mar 22 to Mar 31
Hazelnut Tree

Sep 24 to Oct 03
Hazelnut Tree


Apr 01 to Apr 10
Rowan Tree

Oct 04 to Oct 13
Rowan Tree


Apr 11 to Apr 20
Maple Tree

Oct 14 to Oct 23
Maple Tree


Apr 21 to Apr 30
Walnut Tree

Oct 24 to Nov 11
Walnut Tree


May 01 to May 14
Poplar Tree

Nov 12 to Nov 21
Chestnut Tree


May 15 to May 24
Chestnut Tree

Nov 22 to Dec 01
Ash Tree


May 25 to Jun 03
Ash Tree

Dec 02 to Dec 11
Hornbeam Tree


Jun 04 to Jun 13
Hornbeam Tree

Dec 12 to Dec 21
Fig Tree


Jun 14 to Jun 23
Fig Tree

Dec 22
Beech Tree


Jun 24
Birch Tree




YOUR TREE (in alphabetical order)
Apple Tree (the Love) — quiet and shy at times, lots of charm, appeal, and attraction, pleasant attitude, flirtatious smile, adventurous, sensitive, loyal in love, wants to love and be loved, faithful and tender partner, very generous, many talents, loves children, needs affectionate partner.


Ash Tree (the Ambition) — extremely attractive, vivacious, impulsive, demanding, does not care for criticism. Ambitious, intelligent, talented, likes to play with fate, can be very egotistic, reliable, restless lover, sometimes money rules over the heart, demands attention, needs love and much emotional support.


Beech Tree (the Creative) — has good taste, concerned about its looks, materialistic, good organization of life and career, economical, good leader, takes no unnecessary risks, reasonable, splendid lifetime companion, keen on keeping fit (diets, sports, etc.).


Birch Tree (the Inspiration) — vivacious, attractive, elegant, friendly, unpretentious, modest, does not like anything in excess, abhors the vulgar, loves life in nature and in calm, not very passionate, full of imagination, little ambition, creates a calm and content atmosphere.


Cedar Tree (the Confidence) — of rare strength, knows how to adapt, likes unexpected presents, of good health, not in the least shy, tends to look down on others, self-confident, a great speaker, determined, often impatient, likes to impress others, has many talents, industrious, healthy optimism, waits for the one true love, able to make quick decisions.


Chestnut Tree (the Honesty) — of unusual stature, impressive, well-developed sense of justice, fun to be around, a planner, born diplomat, can be irritated easily, sensitive of others feelings, hard worker, sometimes acts superior, feels not understood at times, fiercely family oriented, very loyal in love, physically fit.


Cypress Tree (the Faithfulness) — strong, muscular, adaptable, takes what life has to give but doesn't necessarily like it, strives to be content, optimistic, wants to be financially independent, wants love and affection, hates loneliness, passionate lover which cannot be satisfied, faithful, quick-tempered at times, can be unruly and careless, loves to gain knowledge, needs to be needed.


Elm Tree (the Noble-mindedness) — pleasant shape, tasteful clothes, modest demands, tends not to forgive mistakes, cheerful, likes to lead but not to obey, honest and faithful partner, likes making decisions for others, noble-minded, generous, good sense of humor, practical.

Fig Tree (the Sensibility) — very strong minded, a bit self-willed, honest, loyal, independent, hates contradiction or arguments, loves life and friends, enjoys children and animals, a social butterfly, great sense of humor, likes idleness and laziness after long demanding hours at work, has artistic talent and great intelligence.


Fir Tree (the Mysterious) — extraordinary taste, handles stress poorly, loves anything beautiful, can become depressed at times, stubborn, tends to care for those close to them as well as helping strangers, rather modest, hard worker, talented, unselfish, few sexual relationships, many friends, doesn't want foes, very reliable.


Hazelnut Tree (the Extraordinary) — charming, sense of humor, very demanding but can also be very understanding, knows how to make a lasting impression, active fighter for social causes and politics, popular, quite moody, sexually oriented, honest, a perfectionist, has a precise sense of judgment and expects complete fairness.


Hornbeam Tree (the Good Taste) — of cool beauty, cares for its looks and condition, good taste, is not egoistic, makes life as comfortable as possible, leads a reasonable and disciplined life, looks for kindness and acknowledgment in an emotional partner, dreams of unusual lovers, is seldom happy with its feelings, mistrusts most people, is never sure of its decisions, very conscientious.


Lime Tree (the Doubt) — intelligent, hard working, accepts what life dishes out, but not before trying to change bad circumstances into good ones, hates fighting and stress, enjoys getaway vacations, may appear tough, but is actually soft and relenting, always willing to make sacrifices for family and friends, has many talents but not always enough time to use them, can become a complainer, great leadership qualities, is jealous at times but extremely loyal.


Maple Tree (Independence of Mind) — no ordinary person, full of imagination and originality, shy and reserved, ambitious, proud, self-confident, hungers for new experiences, sometimes nervous, has many complexities, good memory, learns easily, complicated love life, wants to impress.


Oak Tree (the Brave) — robust nature, courageous, strong, unrelenting, independent, sensible, does not like change, keeps its feet on the ground, person of action.


Olive Tree (the Wisdom) — loves sun, warmth and kind feelings, reasonable, balanced, avoids aggression and violence, tolerant, cheerful, calm, well-developed sense of justice, sensitive, empathetic, free of jealousy, loves to read and the company of sophisticated people.


Pine Tree (the Peacemaker) — loves agreeable company, craves peace and harmony, loves to help others, active imagination, likes to write poetry, not fashion conscious, great compassion, friendly to all, falls strongly in love but will leave if betrayed or lied to, emotionally soft, low self esteem, needs affection and reassurance.


Poplar Tree (the Uncertainty) — looks very decorative, talented, not very self-confident, extremely courageous if necessary, needs goodwill and pleasant surroundings, very choosy, often lonely, great animosity, great artistic nature, good organizer, tends to lean toward philosophy, reliable in any situation, takes partnership seriously.


Rowan Tree (the Sensitivity) — full of charm, cheerful, gifted without egoism, likes to draw attention, loves life, motion, unrest, and even complications, is both dependent and independent, good taste, artistic, passionate, emotional, good company, does not forgive.


Walnut Tree (the Passion) — unrelenting, strange and full of contrasts, often egotistic, aggressive, noble, broad horizon, unexpected reactions, spontaneous, unlimited ambition, no flexibility, difficult and uncommon partner, not always liked but often admired, ingenious strategist, very jealous and passionate, no compromise.


Weeping Willow (the Melancholy) — likes to be stress free, loves family life, full of hopes and dreams, attractive, very empathetic, loves anything beautiful, musically inclined, loves to travel to exotic places, restless, capricious, honest, can be influenced but is not easy to live with when pressured, sometimes demanding, good intuition, suffers in love until they find that one loyal, steadfast partner; loves to make others laugh.

DIALAH SAHABAT...

Telah puas aku pandang dan perhati sifat dan sikap sahabatku ini.Namun belum pernah ku temui cacat celanya dari dari segi sikap mahu pun perbuatan.Semuanya nampak cantik seperti yang dituntut oleh agama.Malu itu memang pakaian peribadinya.Rendah diri itu perhiasan dirinya.Ilmu itu dihujung bibirnya.Kemewahan bukan kebangaannya.Dia sangatlah serba sederhana namun nampak begitu sempurna dan bersesuaian dengannya walau di mana pun dia berada.Dimajlis orang besar-besar dia tetap nampak sepadan.Dimajlis orang miskin dia tidak nampak perlu dimuliakan.Manisnya akhlak dan kewibawaan dirinya.Dalam zuhud tidak pula dia sampai menghina diri dalam berpakaian dan kehidupan.Sedangkan yang aku tahu dia memang seorang yang teramat zuhud.Zuhud itu merupakan hatinya.

Seperti pesan Alqamah pada puteranya dalam mencari seorang sahabat :

1 )Jika engkau membuat bakti kepadanya , ia akan melindungimu.
2 )Jika engkau rapatkan persahabatan dengannya , ia akan membalas baik persahabatanmu itu.
3 )Jika engkau memerlukan pertolongan daripadanya berupa wang dan sebagainya , ia akan membantumu.
4 )Jika engkau hulurkan sesuatu kebaikan ia akan menerimanya dengan baik.
5 )Jika ia mendapat sesuatu kebaikan darimu , ia akan menghargai dan menyebutnya.
6 )Jika mendapati sesuatu yang tidak baik dari dirimu , dia akan menutupnya.
7 )Jika engkau meminta sesuatu bantuan darinya , ia akan mengusahakan.
8 )Jika engkau berdiam diri ( kerana malu hendak meminta) ia akan tanyakan padamu.
9 )Jika datang sesuatu bencana menimpamu , ia akan merengankan kesusahanmu.
10 )Jika engkau berkata padanya , nescaya ia akan membenarkanmu.
11 )Jika engkau merancang sesuatu , nescaya dia akan membantumu.
12 )Jika antaramu berselisih faham , dia rela mengalah demi kepentingan sebuah persahabatan.

Semua itu ada padanya.Bertuah sungguh aku mendapat sahabat sepertinya.Inilah sahabat sejati , sahabat yang kita berasa senang dengannya dalam urusan keduniaan dan mendapat faedah dalam hal-hal yang berkaitan dengan akhirat.Inilah sahabatku.

Melihat wajahnya mengingatkan aku sentiasa kepada Tuhan.Tidak pernah jemu bila berbicara dengannya kerana kata-katanya adalah ilmu yang dipraktikkan.Cahaya wajahnya terpancar setiap kali dia tersenyum sehingga aku tidak pernah jemu untuk menatapnya.Bahasanya lembut tutur kata juga sopan.Tapi pertemuan kami hanyalah sekali sekala.Ini membuatkan aku sentiasa rindu padanya.Berdepan dengannya terasa sangat kekurangan pada diri ini.Kadang-kadang terasa seperti dia tahu gerak hatiku.Seperti dia kenal benar dengan peribadiku yang banyak berdosa ini.Malunya aku…………..

SALAM UKHWAH..

ALhamdulillah...
Pertama-tamanya dan selamnya bersyukur kita ke hadrat ILAHI...kerana dgn izinnya lahir juga blog nie kat laman sesawang nie..setinggi penghargaan dan terima kasih ana tujukan kepada kawan ana Rafidah (bukan nama sebenar) kerana telah bersusah payah membantu ana menjayakan blog nie...tidak dilupakan juga kepada sahabat2 seperjuangan yang juga banyak memeri sokongan dan dorongan....
Last but not least...
Jutaan terima kasih kepada sesape yang dah membantu diri ini sama ada secara sedar mahupun tidak sedar...juge kepada yang mengenali diri ana ataupun yang tak kenal...
SAYONARA!!!!

SALAM.....

Salam terindah kukirimkan,
salam sejahtera penghuni syurga,
Salam yang harumnya melebihi kasturi,
sejuknya melebihi embun pagi,
Salam sehangat mentari waktu Dhuha,
Salam sesuci air telaga Kautsar,
Salam penghormatan dan Persahabatan yang tiada pudar dalam setiap musim dan peristiwa,
Salam ukhwah kerana ALLAH....